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I'm Bethi. Hello.

I'm 22 years old. I'm a senior in college, but I'm not telling you which one because internet security.

I'm a white, asexual, aromantic, autistic, TAB, cis woman. I'm an intersectional feminist. If I've forgotten anything here, ask away.

My fandoms are Harry Potter, Stargate, Doctor Who, Sherlock Holmes/Sherlock/Elementary, Avengers, Firefly, Pride & Prejudice/Lizzie Bennet Diaries and some others that I can't think of right now. Here, I post (reblog) fuzzy animals, fandom things, and probably not as much social justice stuff as I think I do.

If you want to know things, mosey on over to the askbox. I am happy to do the communication thing with you, just don't expect me to be particularly good at it. :)

I try to tag things and keep things accessible and generally not shitty. If you need me to tag things or change things or whatever, just let me know and I'll do my best to, y'know, do that. Also, if you think I'm being gross, I do appreciate knowing that so I can stop being gross.

Also, my icon? Is my kitty, Peeves. He is sometimes a sweetie, but usually a snot. I also have three dogs, one labrador-sized and two mini poodle-sized. Peeves enjoys picking fights with all three. Because he is a feline poltergeist.

  • aboutmaleprivilege:

    richesofthepoor:

    asexual-not-a-sexual:

    A guide to being an ally for friends and family of LGBT*QIA individuals. 

    Online ebook available [HERE] if you would like to share with others but do not wish to link to your tumblr. (Also, it’s fun to turn the pages.)

    Original size 20x24” posters available for educational purposes. Contact me directly for files. 

    this is amazing.

    Quick guide/intro for basics, for those who are unfamiliar with this sort of thing.

    -eccoecho

    (via all-about-male-privilege)

    Tagged: basics sex education education sexuality gender trans* asexual aromantic queer LGB LBGT* things to remember always

    Posted on December 11, 2012 via Thanks, but no thanks with 34,224 notes

    Source: asexual-not-a-sexual

  • What is your favorite way to respond to: “How do you know you’re asexual if you haven’t tried sex?”

    metapianycist:

    One of my ace meatspace friends asked me how to respond to this question, and I’m interested to see how people other than me respond to this question, whether it’s asked online or in meatspace. Whether the answer is snarky as hell or not. :P

    “Have you ever had your tongue removed via a cheese grater?”

    “What? No, of course not.”

    “Would you like to have your tongue removed via a cheese grater?”

    “What? No, of course not.”

    “But how can you KNOW you would not like to have your tongue removed via a cheese grater, if you’ve never tried it before?”

    It’s simultaneously a lovely analogy and a subtle threat. 

    Tagged: damn my asexual privilege asexual asexuality behavior is not orientation actuallyasexual

    Posted on April 8, 2012 via Friendly Neighborhood Sasshole with 32 notes

  • "Possibilities" Updated

    goldenheartedrose:

    I posted 5 chapters (I was tempted to post more).

    So enjoy, tell me how you like it. Thanks!

    So much love.

    Tagged: fanfiction sherlock ace!Sherlock autie!Sherlock autistic Sherlock possibilities asexual asexuality

    Posted on March 24, 2012 via I am. I am. I am. with 4 notes

  • FACT: When being threatened, aromantic asexuals start to produce a pheromene that turns everything within a 50-metre-radius strictly platonic.

    Tagged: 100% true asexual aromantic fact This would make my life so much easier.

    Posted on March 9, 2012 via Facts About Queers with 494 notes

  • FACT: All asexual individuals knit.

    Unless they’re left-handed. 

    Tagged: 100% true asexual queer fact

    Posted on March 1, 2012 via Facts About Queers with 258 notes

  • FACT: All asexuals are secretly Time Lords who somehow escaped the Time War

    Tagged: 100% true asexual grey-asexual queer fact all of the truth

    Posted on February 20, 2012 via Facts About Queers with 1,110 notes

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